Sports medicine doctors often watch the dynamics between athletes, coaches and parents over many years.
Some athletes burn out, some have done well and some have earned a college scholarship or placement on a USA National Team. As an outsider looking into the world of young athletes, it's easy to point out what makes a great athlete. Hard work, persistence, talent, sacrifice and attitude all factor into the success of a young athlete. It's not as easy to pinpoint what makes a great sports parent.
But pediatricians, psychologists and coaches have found very similar qualities in the parents of highly successful (and happy) athletes. Below is a list of several traits and strategies that are consistent in all-star parents.
Whether you are new to the sport or a longtime veteran, there's always something to learn while improving skills. Perhaps 1 (or more) of these points will confirm your current strategy or initiate a positive change. While this isn't an attempt to tell you how to parent, it is a glimpse into successful parent/athlete relationships.
Top 10 traits of the all-star parent
Thomas Edison had thousands of failed inventions before he invented the light bulb! Abraham Lincoln lost 8 elections and had 2 failed businesses. Think about the qualities that must have gotten them to their overall goal. When you're teaching your child, remember that promoting these qualities may help parenting – and being an athlete – more fun!